A eulogy is a speech designed to honor and show remembrance to a loved one. A eulogy happens at a funeral or memorial service and can be done in several different ways. Sometimes just a single person will deliver a eulogy, while other times a eulogy will involve multiple family members and loved ones. A eulogy will sometimes incorporate readings or bible verses in it. Doing this can be a great way to put your words into feelings, bring the group together in faith or even to give a little insight into your loved one.
Words can be comforting and choosing the right readings for a eulogy can be an overwhelming task. There’s no shortage of meaningful passages, poems, and verses out there, which can make it hard to find one that’s right for your loved one’s service. For those that follow the Christian faith, including a bible passage can be an important part of the eulogy. There are also a lot of meaningful poems, songs, and non-religious readings to consider. If you want to include a reading in a eulogy, then this can be a helpful place to start. We’ve provided a variety of types of readings that make up some of the most popular choices.
Isaiah 41:10
This reading from the bible is a popular choice for eulogies because of the hope it can inspire. This passage brings comfort by reminding readers that God will always be there and encouraging everyone to not be fearful and to stand firm since God will support you. This passage can be powerful in bringing funeral attendees together by starting the service off with some positive, encouraging and comforting words.
Matthew 5:4
This reading is short and simple but is very powerful in providing hope to those in mourning. This reading can help validate the painful feelings of mourning that everyone is experiencing, while also providing comfort that those mourning is not hopeless.
Psalm 34:18
Similar to Matthew 5:4, Psalm 34:18 is a short and simple reading that serves as a powerful reminder that even if someone feels that their spirit is broken, the Lord is still with them. For mourners, this can be a comforting reading because it reminds them that even though they are experiencing feelings of despair, they can still rest assured that the Lord is close to them.
Ecclesiastes 3:1
This reading can be comforting to mourners because it reminds us of the seasonality of everything, including life. For mourners that are feeling pain, this reminder can be very helpful. Not only does this reading serve as a reminder that not everything lasts forever - including pain, but also that God has a purpose for everything.
Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night - Dylan Thomas
This poem by Dylan Thomas was published in 1952 and remains one of the most famous poems of the 20th century. The poem itself was inspired by Thomas’ struggles with coming to terms with his father’s mortality. The poem was written while Thomas’ father - an influential person in his life, was dying. The poem is a popular choice for eulogies because at its heart, it is about the universal nature of death. Specifically, the poem describes how, although death is an inevitable part of life, it should not be faced passively, but rather should be avoided and fought against. The poem can be used to represent your loved one’s tenacity for life or if they struggled with an illness, to represent how they did not go gentle into that good night.
Turn Again to Life - Mary Lee Hall
This poem can be an uplifting reading to include in a eulogy. The overall meaning behind the poem is to make meaning out of the death of someone. When someone loses a loved one, it can be hard to continue, and you may even feel guilty for doing so. These are common feelings that those in mourning struggle with. This poem, however, serves as a reminder that after someone passes away, they wouldn’t want their loved ones to “keep long vigils by the silent dust, and weep,” but rather enjoy their lives and make the most out of it. Incorporating this into a eulogy can be inspiring and remind everyone that staying in a constant state of grief is not something that their loved one would have wanted for them.
Remember Me - Margaret Mead
If you want a poem that encompasses the ups and downs of a relationship, then this poem by American poet Margaret Mead is a good option. This poem is commonly selected as a funeral reading because it captures feelings of remembrance that someone is likely to feel after losing someone and describes the peace that can be found in remembering them in the beauty of everyday things.
Dear Lovely Death - Langston Hughes
Langston Hughes is a famous American poet that rose to fame during the Harlem Renaissance. This powerful poem is often chosen for eulogies for its ability to inspire hope in those grieving. The poem suggests that rather than destroying things, death simply changes things. This can be a powerful way of thinking by shining a more comforting light on death without denying the reality and finality of it.
A Clear Midnight - Walt Whitman
This poem shares a unique perspective on death that is different from what we tend to think about. The theme of midnight in the poem is used to evoke feelings of peace and calm, rather than scary or negative emotions like we tend to feel when thinking about this subject. This poem can help mourners view death as a place of rest, rather than a scary or meaningless thing.
At Gaulden Monuments we know how meaningful a eulogy is and the important role it plays in honoring someone’s life and legacy. Incorporating a reading into a eulogy can sometimes make it easier to put your thoughts and feelings into words and may even open your mind to new perspectives.
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